You Never Know
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You Never Know by Tom Selleck | Audiobook Review

By Tom Selleck

Narrated by Tom Selleck

🎧 15 hours and 27 minutes 📘 Dey Street Books 📅 November 19, 2024 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

There are many miles from the business school and basketball court at the University of Southern California to 50 million viewers for the final episode of a TV show called Magnum P.I. Tom Selleck has lived every one of those miles in his own iconoclastic and joyful way.

Frank, funny and open-hearted, You Never Know is an intimate memoir from one of the most beloved actors of our time, the highly personal story of a remarkable life and thoroughly accidental career. In his own voice and uniquely unpretentious style, the famed actor brings readers on his uncharted but serendipitous journey to the top in Hollywood, his temptations and distractions, his misfires and mistakes and, over time, his well-earned success. Along the way, he clears up an armload of misconceptions and shares dozens of never-told stories from all corners of his personal and professional life. His rambunctious California childhood. His clueless arrival as a good-looking college jock in Hollywood (from the Dating Game to the Fox New Talent Program to co-starring with Mae West and escorting her to black-tie social functions). What it was like to emerge as a mega-star in his mid-thirties and remain so for decades to come, an actor whose authenticity and ease in front of the camera connected with audiences worldwide while embodying and also redefining the clichés of onscreen manhood.

In You Never Know, Selleck recounts his personal friendships with a vivid army of A-listers, everyone from Frank Sinatra to Carol Burnett to Sam Elliott, paying special tribute to his mentor James Garner of The Rockford Files, who believed, like Selleck, that TV protagonists are far more interesting when they have rough edges.He also more than tips his hat to the American western and the scruffy band of actors, directors and other ruffians who helped define that classic genre, where Selleck has repeatedly found a happy home. Magnum fans will be fascinated to learn how Selleck put his career on the line to make Thomas Magnum a more imperfect hero and explains why he walked away from a show that could easily have gone on for years longer.

Hollywood is never easy, even for stars who make it look that way. In You Never Know, Selleck explains how he’s struggled to balance his personal and professional lives, frequently adjusting his career to protect his family’s privacy and normalcy. His journey offers a truly fresh perspective on a changing industry and a changing world. Beneath all the charm and talent and self-deprecating humor, Selleck’s memoir reveals an American icon who has reached remarkable heights by always insisting on being himself.

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Fifteen hours and twenty-seven minutes of memoir, read by the man whose memoir it is: that is what this audiobook is, and the strongest reason to take it over the printed edition. Tom Selleck wrote You Never Know and records it himself for Dey Street Books, dated November 19, 2024. Five separate write-ups sit beneath a counter reporting four votes. Two of those five posted in May and June of 2024, months before the date this listing gives for publication.

Luck, Stubbornness, and a Lot of Showing Up

Selleck's case for the book sits plainly in the description: a "thoroughly accidental career", told "Frank, funny and open-hearted", running from "the business school and basketball court at the University of Southern California" to fifty million viewers for the final episode of Magnum P.I. That is a substantial arc and an unusual one, because the copy insists at every turn that none of it was the plan. Actor memoirs generally claim destiny somewhere in the first chapter. This one claims luck, stubbornness and a great deal of showing up.

Gagah supplies the most precise account of what makes the time worth spending: "An engaging, instructional bio devoid of" kiss-and-tell and the dark side anecdotes "that seem commonplace in celebrity tomes these days". What that response values instead is the transparency about "an actor's psyche", including admissions of paranoia on auditions. For anybody working in a field where rejection is the resting state, that is the reason to press play, rather than any of the Hollywood stories surrounding it.

Four votes on the counter, five write-ups beneath it, and a 4.6 that four whole-star grades have no way of producing. Worth noting once and then setting aside: every grade you can see is a five apart from a lone four, which tells you the sentiment even when the tally makes no sense. The more useful detail is that two of those five were posted in mid-2024, well ahead of November 19, and are therefore not describing this recording at all.

The Recording Delivers What the Page Could Suggest

Magnum viewers get the specific thing they came for. The description promises an account of how Selleck "put his career on the line to make Thomas Magnum a more imperfect hero", and an explanation of why he walked away from a show that could have run for years longer. Those are the two questions that have trailed the series ever since it ended, and putting both answers inside one book is the boldest promise the copy makes for itself. The same passage promises he clears up "an armload of misconceptions" and shares dozens of never-told stories, which is the sort of line a jacket writes and a listener spends fifteen hours checking.

Hollywood name-dropping is usually the filler in a book like this, and at least the company is good: Frank Sinatra, Carol Burnett, Sam Elliott, and above all James Garner, presented as the mentor "who believed, like Selleck, that TV protagonists are far more interesting when they have rough edges". The early material is stranger and better still, taking in the Dating Game, the Fox New Talent Program, and co-starring with Mae West while escorting her to black-tie social functions. Selleck also tips his hat to the American western and to "the scruffy band of actors, directors and other ruffians" who helped define it, a genre the copy says he has repeatedly found a happy home in.

Nobody in the column mentions the recording, which is an odd silence on a book its own subject reads aloud. Linda M Lopez comes closest without intending to: "As I read it, it seemed as if Mr. Selleck was telling a story." That is a description of a voice, written by somebody holding a printed page. On this edition, the effect that reviewer is reaching for is simply what happens, which makes the audio the version that delivers outright what the hardcover could only suggest.

A Chapter a Day, a Different Rhythm

Privacy is the organizing principle of the whole book and also its central limitation, and one reader names it exactly. pilates lover bought it expecting something like James Garner's memoir, balanced across work, private life and family, and reports that "Tom is very private like Garner, but more so." The specific complaint: Jillie gets a meeting and a wedding and then vanishes from the narrative, with nothing about the pregnancy or "how being a dad changed him". The description confirms the pattern, describing a career adjusted repeatedly to protect "his family's privacy and normalcy".

Two of the five responses barely engage with the book. One opens with enthusiasm for how Selleck looks before turning into a secondhand anecdote about a honeymooning couple spotting him on a beach in Hawaii, relayed from a coworker. Another is a couple of sentences of general praise. Both carry five stars. In a column this small that leaves three responses doing real work, and one of those three is the four-star critique, which is the one you should weigh most heavily.

Fifty million viewers is the figure the description opens on, and it explains the shape of the audience. This is a book for people who watched, and a good share of its pleasures are recognition pleasures. JMLMT "read a chapter at least every day", which on a recording this long is a very different rhythm from the one the format usually encourages. Anyone who listens the way that reader read will be living with it for a month, and it holds up to that treatment better than most celebrity memoirs would.

Set Expectations by the Four-Star Reader

Anybody who watched Magnum P.I. or Blue Bloods is the core audience, and one reviewer names both shows without being asked. Beyond them, actors and anyone facing auditions will find the passages on rejection and self-doubt the most valuable material here, which is precisely what the most analytical response picked out. Listeners who dislike celebrity confession are well served too, since the book declines it as a matter of policy. So is anyone who wants an American career story told without the varnish of destiny laid over it.

Set your expectations by the four-star reader rather than by the five-star ones: this is a career book with a private life kept firmly offstage. Anyone hoping for the marriages, the fatherhood or the gossip will come away short, and the one reader who wanted exactly that says so at length. The fifteen hours you get instead are Selleck on work, luck and the people who taught him the job, in his own voice, which is the entire argument for choosing this edition over the page.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does Tom Selleck narrate the You Never Know audiobook himself?

He does. The same name fills both credits, which on a memoir this conversational is the reason to choose the recording. One reviewer, describing the printed edition, said it felt as though Selleck was telling a story out loud. That is not an impression on this version, it is the format.

How much of the audiobook is about Magnum P.I.?

A great deal, and the description flags two specific payoffs: how Selleck risked his career to make Thomas Magnum a more flawed hero, and why he left a show that could have continued for years. One reviewer wanted more personal balance and found the television material dominant throughout.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

An Actor's Guide, A Reader's Find

An engaging, instructional bio devoid of "kiss-and-tell" and dark side anecdotes that seem commonplace in celebrity tomes these days.Tales of the inner workings of the film industry, recounting seasons shooting "Magnum," and Selleck's recollections perks of stardom perks are fun and entertaining.What speaks to me more, however, is Selleck's transparency...

- Gagah
★★★★★

Tom Selleck's Memoir

I loved this book very much. As I read it, it seemed as if Mr. Selleck was telling a story. It was so touching and very interesting. One of those books that you don't want to put down. I have always loved Mr. Selleck's personality. He is a very down...

- Linda M Lopez
★★★★☆

Nice read but heavy into TV vs personal

I bought this thinking it might be like James Garner's memoir, a favorite of mine, balanced tales from work, private life and keeping things balanced in his memories.Tom is very private like Garner, but more so. I was hoping for more balance. I never heard the gossip with his first...

- pilates lover
★★★★★

Excellent easy to read

Excellent, easy read on Tom Selleck. I read a chapter at least every day looking forward to finding out more about how this actor came to be.

- JMLMT
★★★★★

very nice

Ok let's face it Tom Selleck is just a delight to the eyes. He is also very grounded and real. I was extremely impressed how gentlemanly he was regarding his first wife. { the woman has issues} Interestingly Tom adopted her son and actually parented him. The man has character...

- Autumn laughter

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