How I Found Myself in the Midwest
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How I Found Myself in the Midwest by Steve Grove | Audiobook Review

By Steve Grove

Narrated by Steve Grove

🎧 8 hours and 31 minutes 📘 Simon & Schuster Audio 📅 June 24, 2025 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

A passionate testimony to the power of moving forward by going back home, a Midwestern native shares hope in going local.

Just after turning forty, Steve Grove left Silicon Valley as a Google executive to move to his home state of Minnesota with his wife and fellow tech exec, Mary Grove, and their one-year-old twins. Gone from the Midwest for two decades, Grove returned home with fresh eyes. Yearning to put down new roots, he traded his career at Google for a position in state government with Governor Tim Walz. Far from working at a fast-paced tech company, Grove’s shift to leading a large government bureaucracy brought a sequence of struggles and triumphs vividly portrayed with both humor and affection.

But this story of reinvention takes on new urgency when crisis strikes, as the coronavirus pandemic and the tragic murder of George Floyd unfolds just miles from his newfound home, thrusting Grove’s work into an unexpected spotlight. Tasked with distributing billions in aid, rolling out pandemic restrictions, redeveloping neighborhoods, and navigating deep divisions in a state long proud of its exceptionalism, Grove’s journey through crisis brings new insights about himself and his new community. His experiences of the political, geographic, and racial divisions in his home state yield surprising discoveries about what also binds us together.

From making new friends and building a family to reconciling with his past and exploring his faith, Grove’s journey to find purpose by going local provides a roadmap for anyone looking to discover what gives meaning to their life. Along the way, Grove shares insights about a part of the country that many people ignore at their peril, and why he is optimistic about America’s future. How I Found Myself in the Midwest will move and inspire you, no matter where you choose to call home.

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Why would a Google executive give up Silicon Valley for a job running a state agency in Minnesota? Steve Grove spends eight hours and thirty-one minutes on the answer, and he reads the audiobook himself, a decision that only starts to matter once the second half arrives. He left Google just after turning forty, moved home with his wife and fellow tech executive Mary Grove and their one-year-old twins, and took a position in state government under Governor Tim Walz. Then the coronavirus pandemic arrived, and George Floyd was murdered a few miles from the home he had only just returned to.

Two Books in One File That Never Pretends

Memoir and civic report live inside the same file, and the join between them is visible. Half of it is a homecoming story about friendship, faith, family history and the specific texture of putting down roots in a place you left two decades earlier. The other half is a first-person account of running a large bureaucracy through the hardest stretch in recent Minnesota history: distributing billions in aid, rolling out pandemic restrictions, redeveloping neighborhoods afterward. Grove never pretends the two halves are the same story, and the book is better for that honesty, though somebody who came for one will spend real hours inside the other.

larkyball, writing in July 2025, reaches for three comparisons inside a single paragraph, and the reaching is instructive: The Fifth Risk for the argument about what government programs quietly do well, East of Eden for family history playing out across a landscape, and Malcolm Gladwell for the return to a place of origin. None of the three is a bad match. That a reader needed all three at once says something about how many registers this book moves through in eight and a half hours.

Reinvention is the word the description reaches for, and it undersells the actual subject. Grove is testing whether the instincts that worked at a fast-moving technology company transfer to an institution that cannot move fast and probably should not, and he is candid about the occasions when they did not. That question is more interesting than a career pivot, and it is the thread holding the civic material and the personal material together at the points where chronology alone would not.

The Case for Self-Narration Here Isn't Warmth

Grove narrates, and one voice is carrying two jobs across the whole eight and a half hours of it. The first belongs to a person telling stories about one-year-old twins, new friendships made at forty, a reconciliation with his own past and a return to faith. The second belongs to a commissioner explaining how billions in aid moved through an agency. A hired reader would have to pick a tone and hold it. Somebody who lived both halves can let the procedural register stay flat, because the listener already knows what it cost him, and that is the specific case for self-narration here rather than the usual one about warmth.

Drew P., writing in August 2025, identifies the structural choice that keeps the runtime moving: vignettes rather than chapters, with repeated spotlights on other people doing useful work and on the history of why particular things came to be, in Silicon Valley as much as in Minnesota. That shape suits audio unusually well. A vignette ends before attention frays, and the habit of stepping away from the narrator to profile somebody else stops a memoir from hardening into a monologue.

Anne, writing four days after release, credits the book with something harder than charm. It does not step around racial disparities or political tension in a state long proud of its own exceptionalism, and it approaches both with a stated wish to improve them rather than to score off them. Whether that lands as generosity or as caution will depend entirely on the listener. What is not in doubt is that the material gets handled at length instead of being gestured at and left behind.

A Five-Star Response About a Wait for the Mail

Doug Sausage, writing in late June 2025, opens a five-star response by describing a wait for the book to arrive in the mail since the publication date was announced. A printed object arriving in a box has been graded beneath a listing for an audio file, which is a useful reminder of what fifty-three ratings are actually made of. Two separate entries also establish regional credentials before saying anything about the book, one calling the Midwest home and one identifying as a Minnesotan, so you can see who the column is and who it is not.

Optimism is the register the description closes on, and the book keeps that promise more firmly than some listeners will want. Grove says plainly that he is hopeful about the country's future, and the final movement is built to leave you feeling the same way. Somebody who wants the pandemic-era government work examined coldly, with failures weighed against successes, will find an account generous to nearly everyone in it, the author included. A different July 2025 entry, the only four-star in the column, calls the book charming, which is accurate and is also a ceiling.

Homesickness With a Plan, Tested at the Middle

Homesickness with a plan attached is the condition this speaks to most directly, and it will do more for that listener than a shelf of essays about working from anywhere. A second audience is narrower and better served still: people who work in or near government and almost never hear the inside of a state agency described by somebody who was running one during a crisis. The Silicon Valley years are thinner than the Minnesota years, so a listener hoping for a technology memoir will get vignettes instead of an account.

Political listeners should know what this is and what it is not. It is a memoir by a public official who served in a Democratic administration, written with real affection for that work, and it is neither a policy argument nor a defense of one. Nothing here will move a mind that arrived already made up. Sample twenty minutes from the middle rather than from the opening, because the memoir voice sells itself immediately and the agency material is what you will actually have to live with.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

A thoughtful, inspiring memoir

Steve Grove’s How I Found Myself in the Midwest is a beautifully written memoir that blends personal reinvention with civic reflection. As someone who also calls the Midwest home, I found Grove’s story deeply relatable and inspiring.Grove doesn’t shy away from the complexities of life in the Midwest, from racial...

- Anne
★★★★★

Inspiring and Entertaining Read

This was a fun, informative and inspiring read. Grove's story is presented with vignettes that pull in the reader, especially those with young families. A sense of place is also incredibly important in this story. I really enjoyed the multiple spotlights on other people doing good things, or the history...

- Drew P.
★★★★★

The Way of the Canoe is the Way of the Wilderness and of a Freedom Almost Forgotten

This book is comprised of different, beautiful landscapes and is reminiscent of other great North American authors: echoes of Michael Lewis’ The Fifth Risk that give us a look at the importance and brilliance of government programs, shades of Steinbeck’s East of Eden where real family history plays out biblically,...

- larkyball
★★★★★

A Fascinating Journey

I have been waiting for this book to arrive in the mail since the publication date was announced, and I was not disappointed. Steve's story is fascinating- his career shifting from the heart of Silicon Valley during the early rise and growth of YouTube and Google, to a return to...

- Doug Sausage
★★★★☆

Charming

Charming stories about big moves, making friends and new work challenges in this memoir. It was fun to hear from the author’s perspective the pandemic inside a state agency and everything that entailed. As a Minnesotan, this was an enjoyable read.

- Amazon Customer

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