Both/And
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Both/And by Huma Abedin | Audiobook Review

By Huma Abedin

Narrated by Huma Abedin

🎧 21 hours and 47 minutes 📘 Simon & Schuster Audio UK 📅 November 2, 2021 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

In this beautifully written and propulsive memoir, Huma Abedin - Hillary Clinton’s famously private top aide and longtime adviser - emerges from the wings of American political history to take command of her own story.

The daughter of Indian and Pakistani intellectuals and advocates who split their time between Saudi Arabia, the UK and the United States, Abedin grew up in many worlds. Both/And grapples with family, legacy, identity, faith, marriage and motherhood with wisdom and sophistication.

Abedin launched full steam into a college internship in the office of the first lady in 1996, never imagining that her work at the White House would blossom into a career in public service, nor that the career would become an all-consuming way of life. Still in her twenties and thirties, she thrived in rooms with diplomats and sovereigns, entrepreneurs and artists, philanthropists and activists, and witnessed many crucial moments in 21st-century American history - Camp David for urgent efforts at Middle East peace in the waning months of the Clinton administration, Ground Zero in the days after the 9/11 attacks, the inauguration of the first African American president of the United States, the convention floor when America nominated its first female presidential candidate.

Abedin’s relationship with Clinton has seen both women through extraordinary personal and professional highs, as well as unimaginable lows. Here, for the first time, is a deeply personal account of Hillary Clinton as mentor, confidante and role model. Abedin cuts through caricature, rumour and misinformation to reveal a crystal-clear portrait of Clinton as a brilliant and caring leader a steadfast friend, generous, funny, hardworking and dedicated. Both/And is a candid and heartbreaking chronicle of Abedin’s marriage to Anthony Weiner, what drew her to him, how much she wanted to believe in him, the devastation wrought by his betrayals - and their shared love for their son.

It is also a timeless story of a young woman with aspirations and ideals coming into her own in high-pressure jobs, and a testament to the potential for women in leadership to blaze a path forward while supporting those who follow in their footsteps. Both/And describes Abedin’s journey through the opportunities and obstacles, the trials and triumphs, of a full and complex life. Abedin’s compassion and courage, her resilience and grace, her work ethic and mission are an inspiration to people of all ages.

‘This journey has led me through exhilarating milestones and devastating setbacks,’ said Abedin. ‘I have walked both with great pride and in overwhelming shame. It is a life I am - more than anything - enormously grateful for and a story I look forward to sharing.’

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Huma Abedin narrates her own audiobook, and that choice alone says something about Both/And before the first chapter even starts: this is a life story someone wanted to control the telling of, rather than hand to a professional voice for interpretation. The synopsis traces her from a childhood split between Saudi Arabia, the UK, and the United States, the daughter of Indian and Pakistani intellectuals and advocates, all the way to a 1996 college internship in the office of the first lady that eventually became twenty-five years at the center of American political power.

Bobby B's review singles out one detail the synopsis only gestures at broadly: the story of how Abedin's own grandmother managed to get to school, which that reviewer calls "truly remarkable" on its own terms, separate from anything involving Hillary Clinton or Washington politics. Details like that are what keep a political memoir from reading like a career summary with feelings attached. FullMind's review makes a similar point from a different angle, noting the book covers a life that included real glamour, describing Abedin as "a world traveler" who spent time "living and working among the rich and famous," before adding, without elaborating further, that "there's also the dark side" running underneath that glamour.

First, the Big Picture

FullMind calls this "a page turner," praising how the account starts "even before she was born," with real attention paid to her parents and ancestors before working forward through childhood into a career most people only encounter secondhand. M. Sheehan's review frames the same material more plainly, calling it "a very clear and easy to understand commentary about her 25 years working with Hillary Clinton," useful shorthand for what this book actually is at its core: a quarter-century of proximity to power, narrated by the person who lived inside it. That same reviewer specifically praises how the book moves "back and forth" between the professional and the personal, showing how thoroughly a demanding career and a private life became "intertwined," rather than treating the two as separate chapters.

No reviewer comments specifically on how Abedin performs her own material as a narrator, which is a common gap for self-narrated memoirs generally but still leaves a real question mark for anyone deciding based on audio quality alone. What the reviews do confirm is the content itself lands: Therese Anuenue's review describes crying "upon discovering that HRC lost the presidency," a reaction to a book, not a news event, which says something about how effectively the material re-creates that period.

Exactly one vote registers on the counter here, a 4.6 average built from a single rating, while five separate readers actually took the time to write in. Given how thin that official count is, the five written reactions, all but one of them enthusiastic, carry more real information than the number sitting above them. M. Sheehan's review adds a specific, grounded note of respect that goes beyond simple praise, closing with a direct address to the author: "Thank you, Huma, for your service."

Why Both/And Works as an Audiobook

The historical sweep is genuinely wide: Camp David during Middle East peace efforts in the last months of the Clinton administration, Ground Zero in the days after the September 11th attacks, the inauguration of the first African American president, and the convention floor when America nominated Hillary Clinton as its first female major-party presidential candidate. Few memoirists get to narrate that many distinct historical hinge points from inside the room. The synopsis frames all of it as part of a "testament to the potential for women in leadership," a framing that gives the historical detail a throughline beyond simple proximity to famous events, positioning Abedin's own career trajectory as evidence for a broader argument about women navigating high-pressure institutions.

Therese Anuenue's review also makes clear this book does not shy away from Abedin's marriage to Anthony Weiner, describing him bluntly as someone who "would cross the line of decency again and again," while still crediting Abedin with the honesty to write about what drew her to him and how his betrayals affected her. That willingness to sit with an uncomfortable chapter of her own life, rather than skip past it, is part of what E. Wharton's review means by praising the author's "candor and sensitivity," noting that both qualities stayed present "throughout the book and beyond," well past the final chapter.

A Few Reservations

Twenty-one hours and forty-seven minutes is a long runtime, and the subject matter shifts registers constantly within it: family history, career milestones, national tragedy, and a very public personal scandal all sit inside the same continuous narrative. Listeners expecting a tightly focused political memoir about Clinton-era Washington specifically should know the book spends real time on Abedin's own upbringing and identity first, tracing family history well before the first mention of a campaign office or a White House hallway. That structural choice pays off for readers patient enough to let the earlier chapters build, but it does mean the political material everyone associates with this book does not arrive immediately.

The rating badge is worth treating with real skepticism given how few votes it is built from. A single counted rating cannot represent anything close to consensus, so the five written reviews, four of them enthusiastic and one more measured at four stars, are a far more useful gauge of what to expect than the 4.6 figure alone.

Should You Listen to Both/And?

Readers of political memoir, especially anyone interested in the inner workings of a presidential campaign and administration from a staff perspective rather than the candidate's own point of view, are the clear audience here. Listeners specifically drawn to Abedin's own story, her family's journey across three countries, her marriage, her resilience through public scandal, will find that material given real space rather than treated as a footnote to the Clinton material. Anyone looking purely for policy analysis or campaign strategy should look elsewhere; this is a personal account first. Given the runtime and the shifting subject matter, this also suits a listener willing to sit with the book across several sessions rather than one, since the emotional register changes enough from chapter to chapter that rushing through would likely flatten some of what makes it land.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

A Compelling and Informative Read

Both/And: A Memoir is a page turner. Abedin's narrative about her life is so compelling, from even before she was born (the background information on her parents and other ancestors) on up through birth, childhood and into adulthood, her life has been fascinating to read about. In many ways, her...

- FullMind
★★★★★

You're going to learn a lot about a most remarkable lady.

From the very beginning, Huma Abedin takes you into her life as she tells about her birthplace, then her family's move to Saudi Arabia, then her time at the university in Washington. She also includes a lot of details about her ancestors' lives in India and Pakistan. The story of...

- Bobby B
★★★★☆

Very Well Written Account

Ms. Abedin wrote a very clear and easy to understand commentary about her 25 years working with Hillary Clinton. She did an amazing job of going back and forth explaining how her “job” was intertwined so completely with her personal and family life. She sacrificed a lot to make our...

- M. Sheehan
★★★★★

A Story about Powerful Women

I recall the news about Anthony Weiner. A laughingstock and yet he would cross the line of decency again and again. I had to read about his wife’s perspective. It took guts to write this story. Huma is strong, powerful, hardworking, and resilient.I cried upon discovering that HRC lost the...

- Therese Anuenue
★★★★★

Highly readable.

Refreshingly well- written. Author's candor and sensitivity stayed with me throughout the book - and beyond.

- E. Wharton

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Alexandra Reed

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