Quick Take
- Narration: David Morse delivers a performance of extraordinary restraint and emotional weight, his voice perfectly calibrated for the quiet devastation of Backman’s prose.
- Themes: Memory loss and dementia, grandfather-grandson bonds, the grief of those who love someone disappearing
- Mood: Tender and heartbreaking, like a long goodbye spoken in a whisper
- Verdict: A seventy-minute listen that will stay with you far longer than most books ten times its length.
I finished this one on a Tuesday evening in early November, sitting in my kitchen after dinner, and I did not move for twenty minutes after it ended. Not because I was processing something complicated or because the ending had surprised me. It had not. I sat there because I did not want to disturb whatever Fredrik Backman had left in the room. That is not something I say lightly. I have been reviewing audiobooks for over a decade, and very few titles at any length produce that particular stillness.
At just over an hour, this novella about an elderly man named Noah losing his memories to dementia while his grandson, also called NoahNoah, watches from nearby, is almost embarrassingly brief by commercial standards. What Backman does inside that hour is a different matter entirely.
Our Take on And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer
The structure here is essential to what makes this work. Backman writes in a mode that is both concrete and dreamlike, moving between a grandfather who exists in two times simultaneously and a boy who is old enough to know he is watching someone leave but young enough to keep hoping it isn’t happening. The title itself does exactly what a great title should: it tells you everything about the experience and nothing about the plot. The way home is getting longer. That is the book.
What strikes me most, rereading the synopsis and the reviews from listeners who loved it, is how many of them mention crying in a single sitting. One reviewer called it “beautifully imagined and moving” and read it without stopping. Another described lingering tears and relishing the touching relationships. These are not reactions to a story that delivers sentiment cheaply. Backman is a precise writer, and his precision is what makes the emotion hit so hard. He does not explain loss. He renders it. There is a meaningful difference.
Why Listen to And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer
David Morse is the reason to choose the audio version over the print edition, and that is saying something given how well this reads on the page. Morse has a long career as a character actor, and he brings that same quality of lived-in specificity to his narration. He does not perform grief. He holds it quietly, the way someone would who has watched it happen in real life. The grandfather’s interior moments, which might read as precious in a lesser narrator’s hands, come through as completely genuine here.
Backman’s other work, including A Man Called Ove and Anxious People, has been widely praised for its emotional intelligence and its refusal to condescend to its characters. This novella shares those qualities but operates in a more concentrated register. Lisa Genova, author of Still Alice, another essential book about memory and loss, called it the kind of work you want to share with everyone you know. That instinct is real. This is a book about something universal delivered through something very specific, and the combination makes it quietly devastating.
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One reviewer notes that this novella actually sets the stage for Britt-Marie Was Here and recommends reading it first if you plan to continue with Backman’s catalog. That is useful context. This is not quite a standalone character study and not quite a prequel, but it rewards the reader who is moving through Backman’s world in some kind of sequence. That said, you do not need any prior Backman to be affected by this.
The one honest caveat: at one hour and nine minutes, some listeners may feel the story ends before it resolves. This is a book about incompletion, about something that cannot be fixed or finished, and the narrative form reflects that. If you are someone who needs closure to feel satisfied by fiction, you may find the ending unsatisfying. Most listeners will find that the emotional truth of the final pages makes traditional resolution irrelevant.
Who Should Listen to And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer
This is an essential listen for anyone who has watched a loved one’s memory fade, anyone who finds meaning in the relationship between the very old and the very young, or anyone who simply wants to spend an hour in the presence of writing that earns its emotions. Fans of Backman’s full-length novels will find this essential; it is where his particular form of compassion is at its most undiluted. Listeners who prefer narrative drive and forward momentum over emotional meditation may want to start elsewhere in his catalog.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does this audiobook work as a standalone, or do I need to read Backman’s other books first?
It works as a complete standalone. Some reviewers note it provides useful backstory for Britt-Marie Was Here, but no prior knowledge of Backman’s other characters is required to be fully moved by this one.
Is one hour and nine minutes really enough time to develop an emotional connection to the characters?
For most listeners, yes. The compression is the point. Backman is working at a very high level of efficiency, and the brevity amplifies rather than diminishes the emotional impact.
How does David Morse handle the dual perspective between the grandfather and young Noah?
Morse distinguishes the two voices through tone and pacing rather than dramatic character shifts. The grandfather’s passages feel suspended in memory; the boy’s sections feel present and urgent. It is a subtle and effective performance.
Is this appropriate to listen to with elderly parents or as a family experience?
It depends on the family situation. If dementia is a current reality in your household, the book may be difficult but also deeply validating. If you are not currently living through it, it can open up important conversations. It is not a book that softens what it depicts.
