To Be a Friend of Christ
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By Richard D. Hanks

Narrated by Steven Meredith

🎧 21 hours and 27 minutes 📘 Signature Books 📅 December 19, 2025 🌐 English
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Marion Duff Hanks (1921–2011) was one of the most beloved and influential leaders of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the twentieth century, serving as a General Authority (senior leader) for forty years. He was also a leader of national import. As a recognized expert on youth, five US presidents appointed him to their President’s Council on Physical Fitness and Sports. Hanks also served as an executive leader of Rotary International and the Boy Scouts of America.

Author Richard Hanks draws on previously unavailable primary sources—journals, correspondence, notebooks, and recordings—to share this first and only authorized biography of his father. Hanks traces his father’s influence as he advocated for numerous changes in the institutional church, including humanitarian efforts, refugee relief services, missionary community service, a focus on mercy for the sinner, and a churchwide emphasis on “coming unto Christ.” A Renaissance man, Duff Hanks felt comfortable mingling with presidents and world leaders and speaking from pulpits and podiums to huge audiences and on television. But he found his greatest joy in assisting the individual, encouraging each in their personal search for happiness. Once, when asked about his goals, he replied, “My strongest desire is to qualify to be a friend of Christ.”

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Quick Take

  • Narration: Steven Meredith provides a dignified, warm narration suited to the subject’s own character, unhurried and clear, appropriate for a life measured in service rather than spectacle.
  • Themes: spiritual leadership and humility, LDS institutional history, lifelong discipleship
  • Mood: Reverential and detailed, with the texture of deep archival research
  • Verdict: An authorized biography that earns its length through genuine access to primary sources and a portrait of a man whose influence exceeded his institutional titles, most rewarding for LDS readers but accessible to anyone drawn to religious biography.

At just over 21 hours, To Be a Friend of Christ is a substantial biographical listen, and I came to it in pieces over nearly two weeks, often in the evenings when the day’s noise had settled enough to give it proper attention. Marion Duff Hanks is not a figure with broad name recognition outside Latter-day Saint communities, and I want to be clear that the biography works harder than most authorized hagiographies to justify its length through actual archival depth rather than devotional padding.

Steven Meredith’s narration is a considered choice. He reads with warmth and clarity, and the material makes demands on him: long passages of correspondence and journal entries, sections of address transcripts, historical context for LDS institutional decisions across four decades. Meredith navigates these without losing the biographical thread or letting the archival texture overwhelm the human portrait. For a biography of this scope, technical narration quality matters, and Meredith delivers it reliably.

What Primary Sources Actually Add to a Biography

Richard Hanks, writing his own father’s life, had access that no outside biographer could have matched: previously unavailable journals, notebooks, correspondence, and recordings spanning Hanks’s decades of public service. The biography’s strongest sections are those that draw most directly from this material. Hanks’s private journals reveal a man in genuine spiritual struggle alongside his public confidence, and his correspondence with senior church leaders shows someone willing to advocate for positions that were not always popular institutionally. The authorized nature of the biography is a double-edged thing, but the primary source access gives it something most religious biographies lack: the interior life alongside the public record.

A General Authority Who Thought Differently

The biography’s portrait of Marion Duff Hanks is most interesting in its treatment of where his instincts diverged from his institution. His advocacy for humanitarian efforts, refugee relief, missionary community service, and a focus on mercy rather than judgment placed him at the progressive edge of mid-century LDS leadership. The biography handles this with care, documenting the tension without turning it into a narrative of institutional conflict. One reviewer captures this well: Richard Hanks manages to capture the depth of character and moral center without glorification. That is accurate. The biography does not smooth out its subject into an uncomplicated saint. It shows a man whose faith was demanding of himself first.

Five Presidents and the Reach Beyond Religious Leadership

The detail about Hanks serving on five US Presidents’ Councils on Physical Fitness is something the biography uses to establish his reach beyond religious leadership, and those sections, covering his relationships with Kennedy through Reagan, are some of the most readable in the book. They show a religious leader who moved naturally in secular spaces because his operating principle, serve the individual in front of you, translated across contexts without requiring the context to share his theology. His leadership of the Boy Scouts and Rotary International follows the same pattern. It is a life that makes an implicit argument about what religious conviction looks like when it points outward rather than inward.

Who Should Listen, Who Should Skip

The primary audience is clearly readers within the LDS tradition who will bring existing context to the institutional history and feel the full weight of a General Authority biography. But the biography works for anyone drawn to religious leadership memoir, particularly accounts of men who held institutional power while remaining genuinely uncomfortable with it. At 21 hours, it requires commitment. Listeners who want a tighter portrait could read selectively. But the full arc is rewarding.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is prior knowledge of LDS church structure necessary to follow this biography?

Some familiarity helps. The biography assumes that the term General Authority carries weight, and the institutional debates Hanks navigated will mean more to readers with existing context for LDS church history. That said, Meredith’s narration and the biography’s own contextual explanations make it followable for attentive non-LDS readers.

How does Richard Hanks navigate potential bias as his own father’s authorized biographer?

He navigates it better than most. The biography does not avoid documenting tensions or moments where the elder Hanks held minority positions within his institution. The use of primary sources, including journals that were not previously available, grounds the portrait in documented evidence rather than memory alone.

Does the biography cover Hanks’s role in the Boy Scouts and Rotary International in depth, or are those primarily context for the religious leadership story?

Both. His national service roles are treated as genuine parts of the portrait rather than supporting detail. They illuminate how Hanks thought about service as a practice that crossed institutional and religious boundaries, which is central to the book’s larger argument about his character.

At 21 hours, is there significant padding, or does the length feel earned?

The length is largely earned by the archival depth. The biography draws extensively from journals, correspondence, and recordings that give it a texture most authorized biographies lack. Some sections on institutional church history move slowly for readers not invested in those debates, but the human portrait justifies the commitment.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

An extraordinary biography of an extraordinary man!

When I was in 7th grade a special assembly was announced where we would hear from Marion D. Hanks. I didn’t know who he was. Somehow my Dad learned about the upcoming speech and admonished me to pay close attention. I could not tell you what was said but I…

– David L. Cook
★★★★★

EXEPTIONALLY WELL RESEARCHED AND ENGAGING

Without repeating comments offered by other reviewers, I would add these observations: Richard Hanks manages to capture, without glorification or honorific adulation, the depth of character, motive and moral center of the life of this remarkable man.Through extensive research and cross reference to previously published material, Richard Hanks opens the…

– C J Clifford
★★★★★

Learn how to live!

What a detailed and persuasive account of a remarkable man, ahead of his time in many ways. His insights and philosophy of living and serving are needed in the church and world today. This biography inspires me to be a better neighbor, friend, husband, citizen. So glad this story has…

– David
★★★★★

Hanks biography is faithful, honest and not white-washed.

What an Inspiring and honest biography of dear Marion Duff Hanks! I loved his example of service, loyalty, compassion, testimony, and I also appreciated the real story of his challenges with others' misguided errors and behaviors in the church. Elder Hanks always respected others and did not malign anyone. He…

– J. C.
★★★★★

Fantastic

Easily the best LDS biography I've ever read. Finally something written about this great man and hero. Marion Hanks deserves every ounce of praise he gets. I wish current LDS GA's would take note and read this book. Let's start putting the two great commandments ahead of some of the…

– Rebecca

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