This Is Assisted Dying
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This Is Assisted Dying by Stefanie Green M.D. M.D. | Audiobook Review

By Stefanie Green M.D. M.D.

Narrated by Stefanie Green M.D. M.D.

🎧 8 hours and 22 minutes 📘 Simon & Schuster Audio 📅 March 29, 2022 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

An international bestseller, this compassionate memoir by a leading pioneer in medically assisted dying who helps suffering patients explore and fulfill their end of life choices is “written with sensitivity, grace, and candor...not to be missed” (Publishers Weekly, starred review).

Dr. Stefanie Green has been forging new paths in the field of medical assistance in dying since 2016. In her landmark memoir, Dr. Green reveals the reasons a patient might seek an assisted death, how the process works, what the event itself can look like, the reactions of those involved, and what it feels like to oversee proceedings and administer medications that hasten death. She describes the extraordinary people she meets and the unusual circumstances she encounters as she navigates the intricacy, intensity, and utter humanity of these powerful interactions.

Deeply authentic and powerfully emotional, This Is Assisted Dying contextualizes the myriad personal, professional, and practical issues surrounding assisted dying by bringing readers into the room with Dr. Green, sharing the voices of her patients, her colleagues, and her own narrative. As our population confronts issues of wellness, integrity, agency, community, and how to live a connected, meaningful life, this progressive and compassionate book by a physician at the forefront of medically assisted dying offers comfort and potential relief.

“A humane, clear-eyed view of how and why one can leave the world by choice” (Kirkus Reviews), This Is Assisted Dying will change the way people think about their options, and ultimately is less about death than about how we wish to live.

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  • Performance: Dr. Stefanie Green narrates her own memoir with the quiet authority of a clinician who has learned to be a witness, combining professional precision with genuine emotional presence.
  • What it covers: End-of-life autonomy, physician identity, the ethics of medically assisted dying
  • Feel: Grave and compassionate, with moments of unexpected warmth
  • Our call: One of the most carefully rendered accounts of medical assistance in dying available in any format, and Green's own voice makes the audiobook the preferred way to encounter it.

Dr. Stefanie Green began providing medical assistance in dying in Canada in 2016, the year it was first legalized there, and This Is Assisted Dying is the memoir of that work. The audiobook carries a dimension that makes it worth discussing separately from the print edition: Green narrates her own book, and her voice, measured and clinical when precision is required, genuinely moved when the situation demands it, transforms the listening experience into something close to being in the room with her as she describes what she does and what it costs her. Publishers Weekly, in a starred review, called it written with sensitivity, grace, and candor. All three qualities are present in the audio performance as well as the text.

The Voice You Hear Was Actually in the Room

The memoir opens questions that most books in the medical genre avoid. Green does not simply describe the logistics of medical assistance in dying, though she covers those in enough detail to genuinely demystify the process for listeners encountering it for the first time. She brings the listener into the room with individual patients: their reasons for seeking an assisted death, their relationships with family and caregivers, their specific circumstances, and their final hours. Those portraits are the heart of the book, and they resist easy categorization as either advocacy or documentation. They are witness accounts, delivered by a physician who has had to reckon with what it means to administer a medication that hastens death and to understand that act as an extension of care rather than a contradiction of it.

The self-narration amplifies all of this considerably. When Green describes a patient's final conversation, or reflects on her own internal experience during a particularly complex case, the voice you hear is the voice of the person who was actually present. That is not a small thing in a memoir that depends on the authenticity of its testimony. Kirkus Reviews called the book a humane, clear-eyed view of how and why one can leave the world by choice, and the audio performance makes that humanity immediate rather than mediated through a stranger's voice.

A Death Doula Wishes America Had Canada's System

Green's memoir is one of the most serious attempts in popular nonfiction to contextualize the practical, personal, professional, and ethical dimensions of assisted dying simultaneously. She addresses the myriad misunderstandings that surround medical assistance in dying: about patient coercion, about the criteria for eligibility, about what the event itself looks like in practice, and about how families and medical staff navigate the aftermath. A reviewer who works as a death doula in the United States described the book as essential reading and expressed the wish that the American system could adopt Canada's approach. That response speaks to how specifically useful Green's account is for people already working in end-of-life care.

For general listeners, the book works as a counterweight to the abstraction that usually characterizes public debate about assisted dying. Green never lets the policy arguments crowd out the people. Her patients are specific human beings with specific lives and specific reasons for seeking an assisted death, and that particularity is what makes the book land as something more than advocacy. The listener comes away not with a policy position reinforced but with a fundamentally altered sense of what these individual decisions involve.

This Practitioner's Memoir Argues From Inside the Work

Listeners who approach this audiobook opposed to medical assistance in dying in principle should know upfront that this is a practitioner's memoir written from inside the work rather than a balanced debate. Green is not arguing for a policy position as a politician or ethicist would. She is describing a practice she has chosen and continues to choose, and the book's emotional weight reflects that investment. Listeners seeking an opposing perspective will need to supplement this with other sources.

The memoir is also centered on the Canadian legal and medical context, which differs from the regulatory frameworks in American states where aid in dying is legal and from the situation in other countries. Some of the specific clinical and legal parameters Green describes will not apply universally, and listeners outside Canada should calibrate accordingly. At eight hours and twenty-two minutes, the listening duration is well-matched to the depth of the subject without becoming exhausting.

The publication history of this memoir is also relevant context for the audiobook listener. The book is described as an international bestseller, which reflects genuine cross-national interest in medically assisted dying debates happening simultaneously in multiple countries during the period of its release. Canada's framework, being earlier and in some ways more developed than the systems in place in other English-speaking countries, makes Green's account particularly useful as a reference point for listeners following those debates outside Canada. The audiobook's self-narration also makes it an unusually effective tool for medical and nursing education contexts, where firsthand clinical testimony carries weight that secondhand accounts cannot.

The international bestseller status of this memoir reflects genuine cross-national interest in medically assisted dying debates happening simultaneously across multiple countries during the period of its release. Canada's framework, being earlier and in some ways more developed than systems in other English-speaking countries, makes Green's account useful as a reference point for listeners following those debates outside Canada. The audiobook's self-narration also makes it an effective resource for medical and nursing education contexts, where firsthand clinical testimony carries weight that secondhand accounts cannot fully replicate.

About Life Far More Than About Death

Medical professionals, end-of-life care workers, social workers, and anyone who has supported a family member through a serious illness will find this audiobook particularly valuable. The 4.7 rating across 173 listener reviews reflects a broad audience that extends well beyond professional readers to anyone confronting questions of autonomy, mortality, and what a good death can look like. Listeners who are themselves or have loved ones facing terminal illness will find the book neither exploitative nor evasive. Green writes, as several reviewers have noted, about life far more than about death.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

Very Important Work

What an incredible book, written by Dr. Stefanie Green from Canada. As a Death Doula, who regularly works with clients in the United States who are approaching painful and long drawn out deaths, I wish that here in the US we could adopt the aid in dying approach that Canada...

- Melissa Wood
★★★★★

worth reading

I learned a lot while reading this well written book. The author is certainly very knowledgeable in her field and her compassion is very evident. I think there are still many misconceptions around medial assistance in dying and this book goes a very long way in clarifying the issues. I...

- frugal grandma
★★★★★

Good read, makes you think of your own mortality.

I loved the story the author tells and all the different perspectives of other people thoughts on assisted dying. Good read.

- Amazon Customer
★★★★★

Insightful, heart breaking, beautifully written

This book is fascinating, heart-wrenching and extremely well written. While this is a polarizing issue, I appreciate this doctor's take on her practice, what it means to assist in someone's passing and the ability of the patient's right to choose.This book takes place in Canada. Their law is considerably different...

- Lizz A. Belle
★★★★★

how could anyone be against someone's choice of death?

i loved this book and the author's style of writing. i wish arizona had a 'death with dignity' law. one of the most cogent sentences addresses being able to put to death a treasured and loved pet to put an end to their suffering and yet that same right and...

- Bill

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