Them
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Them by Ben Sasse | Audiobook Review

By Ben Sasse

Narrated by Whitley Strieber

🎧 10 hours and 17 minutes 📘 Walker & Collier Inc. 📅 April 19, 2023 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

Them is the first book ever to examine the intent of the presence known as "aliens" or "visitors" from the perspective of what both civilian and military close encounter witnesses report happening to them.

Mitch Horowitz says in his preface that it's "among the most important interpretations of visitor phenomena since Jacques Valle's Passport to Magonia appeared in 1969."

Jacques Vallee, in the foreword, states that "This book cites fact after fact to build the case for in-depth realignment of public policy with public need."

In part one of the book, Whitley Strieber analyzes the experiences of eleven close encounter witnesses and from that derives the first in-depth picture of what this extremely strange experience may mean, and what our visitors' intentions may be.

In part two, he turns to the military experience, showing how the visitors themselves have forced governments to keep their reality secret, and what the effects of conflict with them has had on public policy as well as the lives of military personnel who have confronted them. Strieber also discusses why conflict situations occurred in the past and why this may be continuing.

He then explores the enormous difficulty of communication between species with differently structured brains, and how these issues can be recognized and addressed.There has never been a book written like Them. It is as much a first as Mr. Strieber's groundbreaking volume about his own close encounter, Communion. While, with the exception of a final, riveting chapter, it does not deal with his own experiences, in it he takes advantage of over three decades of study and research to create a vision of contact that may prove foundational to useful understanding of what is now a confused, sometimes violent, and fraught relationship.

Visit Whitley on his website, Unknowncountry.com and listen to his podcast Dreamland wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Whitley Strieber narrating his own audiobook, Them, produces an unusual listening experience. The author of Communion - the 1987 memoir that brought close encounter testimony into mainstream publishing - returns here not with his personal experiences at the center but with something more structured: an extended analysis of what multiple civilian and military witnesses have reported, and what those reports might collectively reveal about the intentions of what Strieber calls "the visitors." Important note for listeners: the author field on some editions lists another writer, but the synopsis, narration, and content are entirely Strieber's own work - this is his investigation of visitor phenomena, drawing on more than three decades of research. The self-narrated audiobook runs over ten hours.

The Verdict, Briefly

The structure of Them divides neatly into two movements. The first examines eleven civilian close encounter witnesses in depth, drawing on their reported experiences to construct what Strieber frames as the first serious attempt to derive intent from the data rather than simply cataloging events. The second half turns to military encounters, arguing that the visitors themselves have actively pressured governments to maintain secrecy, and that this pressure has had traceable effects on both public policy and on the lives of individual military personnel. Jacques Vallee, who wrote the foreword, calls the book a case for "in-depth realignment of public policy with public need," which is a description of its political ambition rather than just its analytical one. Mitch Horowitz, in the preface, places it in the lineage of Vallee's own Passport to Magonia - which is high praise within this field of inquiry. Strieber's central argument is that the persistent pattern across both civilian and military encounters points toward something stranger than simple contact: a relationship already in progress, already shaping institutional behavior, already producing casualties and suppression. That argument is made with more systematic evidence than most books in this genre attempt. Reviewer Ayden Raymond Greene notes that what distinguishes Strieber's approach is "honest inquiry into the 'what' we see and how much of it we don't understand" - he doesn't manufacture false certainty to comfort the reader.

Why Listen to Them

The self-narration is the decisive factor in why the audiobook format matters here. Strieber reading his own analysis of encounter witnesses carries a different weight than a professional narrator would produce. When he moves from the testimony of others to the book's final chapter - described as "riveting" - the shift in emotional proximity is audible in his voice. He has spent over thirty years inside this material, and the narration doesn't hide that investment. One reviewer accurately notes that there is "redundant material" from Strieber's earlier books for longtime readers, and that's a fair observation: passages involving letters he has received have appeared in other contexts. But the same reviewer concedes that the final third of the book contains genuinely new insights framed within a more comprehensive analytical structure than Strieber has previously attempted. At just over ten hours, the runtime is long enough to develop its arguments fully without exhausting patience. The two-part structure - civilian experiences followed by military encounters - creates a cumulative case that builds across the full runtime rather than front-loading its strongest material. Listeners who have read Communion or The Key will find this a substantive addition rather than a repetition, precisely because the analytical method here is more systematic than those earlier books.

Points to Consider

The book's most intellectually original section is its treatment of communication barriers between species with differently structured brains. Strieber doesn't frame this as a spiritual mystery but as a cognitive and structural problem - one that might be addressable once named clearly. That section rewards attention, and the audio format doesn't always allow for easy re-engagement. Because Strieber narrates with the momentum of someone who has lived inside these ideas for decades, it can be harder in audio than on the page to stop and sit with a particular argument. The book's insistence on taking its subject entirely seriously is both its greatest strength and its limiting factor for some listeners. Reviewers who came in skeptical found the forensic approach to witness testimony more compelling than they expected, but the framing throughout assumes a certain baseline willingness to take the phenomenon at face value. Listeners who approach this as a sociological or psychological study of reported experiences, rather than as an investigation of literal events, will find the book's premises in persistent tension with their own framing. Strieber does not hedge, and for listeners who need that hedging, the ten-hour runtime will test patience.

Who Should Listen to Them

Listeners already engaged with close encounter literature - those who have read Vallee, John Mack, or Strieber's earlier work - will find this the most analytically rigorous book he has written. It rewards serious attention from people who want to understand the pattern of military encounters specifically, not just the civilian ones. The military testimony sections in the second half are relatively underexplored territory even in this genre. Listeners looking for a horror audiobook in the vein of the original Communion will find this more sober than they expect. And those who have never engaged with this subject at all may find the lack of skeptical scaffolding a barrier to entry. But for anyone with genuine curiosity about what decades of consistent witness testimony might cumulatively reveal, Them offers something methodical and, in its final chapter, genuinely affecting.

A Few Questions About Them

Do I need to have read Communion before listening to this audiobook?

No, but it helps. Strieber's earlier work provides context for his personal investment in the subject, and readers familiar with Communion will recognize the framework he's building on. The audiobook stands on its own analytically, but the emotional weight of certain sections is deeper with that background.

Is this audiobook appropriate for listeners who are skeptical about UFO and close encounter phenomena?

Skeptical listeners who are curious rather than dismissive may find value in the analytical approach to witness patterns. But the book does not include alternative explanations as counterweights - it proceeds from the assumption that the encounters are real. That stance will determine whether the audiobook works for you.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

One of the most speculatively thoughtful books on alien abduction phenomena

I appreciated the author’s wrestling with an issue that has affected so many people. Too many authors are dismissive of the alien abduction experience and its significance. It makes a difference when you knew someone who was traumatized by such an experience. Some day Earth’s isolation will end just as...

- Daniel J. McGill
★★★★☆

Recommended with some things to note

Summary: I recommend this book. Some redundancy from other books; new insights in the final third or quarter of the book.Other reviews harshly pointed out that there's redundant material in here. That's a semi-valid point: Some of the letters received from others have appeared before. However, I felt there were...

- Dev Girl
★★★★★

A Deep Unveiling of the UFO Phenomenon

I have always been interested in UFO’s, Alien life and what is now called “The Phenomenon” but as I grow up it becomes more clear to me how little we understand. I loved reading Whitley’s book because it is full of honest inquiry into the “what” we see and how...

- Ayden Raymond Greene
★★★★★

Thorough, thought-provoking, and beautifully written

I am 9/10ths of the way through "Them," and it has met and exceeded my expectations.It's a challenging book to describe because it covers so much ground. Strieber is a not just an experiencer; he is a thinker and a philosopher, and so he delves deeply into the potential meanings...

- Anna Meadows
★★★☆☆

Meh

Meh.

- Michael V. Schiller

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