The Sober Diaries
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The Sober Diaries by Clare Pooley | Audiobook Review

By Clare Pooley

Narrated by Karen Cass

🎧 10 hours and 12 minutes 📘 Hodder & Stoughton 📅 December 28, 2017 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

The must-listen, hilarious memoir that tells you how to stop drinking and start living

Answers questions such as: How do I know if I'm drinking too much? How will I cope at parties? What do I say to friends and family? How do I cope with cravings? What if my partner still drinks?

With a successful career and family life, Clare Pooley never expected to find herself an overweight, depressed, middle-aged mother of three who was drinking more than a bottle of wine a day, and spending her evenings Googling, 'Am I an alcoholic?'

This is the bravely honest and hilariously funny story of a year in Clare's life. A year that started with her quitting booze and then being given the devastating diagnosis of breast cancer. By the end of the year she is booze and cancer-free, two-stone lighter and with a life that is richer and more rewarding than ever before.

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Pooley was googling whether she was an alcoholic in the evenings, which is the detail that tells you what kind of memoir this audiobook is going to be. A successful career, three children, a comfortable life, and more than a bottle of wine a day: the gap between how the outside looks and what the evenings actually contain is the subject, and Clare Pooley writes it as a diary of one year rather than as a recovery narrative told from safety. Hodder and Stoughton released the recording on December 28, 2017, running ten hours and twelve minutes, with Karen Cass credited as the reader.

The Verdict, Briefly

Wine is the specific enemy here, and that specificity is why the book found its audience. This is not a story about hitting bottom in a dramatic way. It is about the socially approved bottle that goes with dinner, then with cooking dinner, then with the afternoon, and about a woman who looks nothing like the picture the word alcoholic puts in most people's heads. A March 2026 five-star describes the appeal exactly, calling it a book for people who have let wine rule their lives and reporting several chapters replayed rather than moved past.

Diagnosis is what turns the year from a personal experiment into something harder. The description does not hide it: the same twelve months that begin with quitting bring breast cancer, and the book has to carry both at once. That structure is unusual and it earns the memoir its weight, because sobriety stops being a self-improvement project the moment the body becomes a genuine emergency. By the end of the year the copy has her free of both, lighter, and living a life it calls richer than before, which is a happier ending than this shelf usually gets to promise honestly. What keeps the cancer chapters from swamping the rest is that the diary format holds: the entries keep arriving, the domestic detail keeps intruding, and the effect is closer to lived time than to a shaped narrative built afterward.

Why Listen to The Sober Diaries

Humor is the reason people press it on their friends, and the column backs that up. A September 2025 five-star calls it one of the best books of its kind, so funny and so real that most of the time it felt to that buyer like having their own mind read, and lands on the sentence that explains the whole genre: we are not alone. Recovery writing goes wrong when it turns pious. This one is closer to a friend telling a story against herself, and that tone survives the subject matter better than solemnity would.

Cravings, parties and what to tell your family are handled directly, and the description lists them as questions the book answers rather than as themes it touches. The reach is wider than the title suggests, too. An October 2025 five-star comes from a man who says the writing hit home anyway and credits it with bolstering a return to a sober path, which is worth noting for anyone assuming a book about a wine-drinking mother of three has nothing to say to them.

Points to Consider

Stone is the unit the description uses for the weight lost across the year, and it is a small sign of something a buyer should register: the publisher is a British house down to the Limited on its name, and the copyright line on the file dates the production to 2017. Nothing is lost in translation, but the drinking culture described is a specific one, and the references to services and habits around it are not American. The column is thinner than it looks, as well, since one of the five displayed reports carries a headline and no text at all, leaving four usable reports behind a counter showing ten ratings.

Quit lit as a category has a built-in limitation, and this book shares it: one person's year is not a method, and what worked for a blogger with resources, a supportive household and a public commitment may not transfer intact. The book is honest about being a diary rather than a program. Anyone in genuine danger needs medical support rather than a memoir, and the record makes no clinical claims at all, which is to its credit but worth stating plainly before anyone treats ten hours of good company as treatment.

Who Should Pick Up The Sober Diaries

Parties, partners who still drink, and the question of what to say at work are the practical anxieties this answers, so the natural audience is anyone in the long stage of wondering. The 2018 four-star describes the book as a friendly companion and a knowledgeable guide for people trying to stop drinking or step back from other substances, and adds that it helps women facing a breast cancer diagnosis as well. Those are two different audiences meeting in one book, and it serves both.

Sobriety memoirs are a crowded shelf, and I would hand this one to the person who is not ready to call it a problem yet: the one who has started counting bottles in the recycling, who has googled the same question at midnight, and who would put down anything that sounded like a lecture in the first ten minutes. Listeners who want clinical structure, a step program or a hard-edged addiction narrative should go elsewhere, and so should anyone currently in treatment for cancer who does not want that territory revisited for entertainment. Everyone else gets a very good year in company that never once talks down.

Before You Press Play

  • Voice: Karen Cass reads a first-person diary the author lived through, so the memoir arrives in a voice other than the one that wrote it.
  • Big ideas: Gray-area drinking, a year of sobriety, breast cancer, family life under strain.
  • Atmosphere: Frank, funny, unexpectedly heavy in the middle.
  • Worth it?: The warmest entry point in quit lit, honest about its own limits as a personal record rather than a plan.

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What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

Great honest journey from too much wine time to sobreity

Excellent and honest... A great book for those of us that have let wine rule our lives. The author takes you along on her honest journey...the good, the bad and the ugly. I read several chapters over again. I truly connected with this book and highly recommend this.

- Financially Free
★★★★★

LOL while you quit or cut back on your drinking

- Jill Ingenito
★★★★☆

Inspiring and funny

Recommended to all who want a friendly companion and knowledgeable guide through efforts to stop drinking alcohol or abusing other substances. Also helpful to women facing breast cancer diagnosis. Finally, this is an oftentimes humorous look at family life through the lens of a bright, honest and insightful woman/wife/mom/blogger.

- Amazon Customer
★★★★★

What a fantastic book! Made me giggle and cry! must read

This book was brilliant. One of the best “quit lit” books I have ever read. So funny. So real. Most of the time I felt like someone was reading my mind that that this was my story. Guess it’s a common place to be. We are not alone. You should...

- Stacey
★★★★★

Great ally on my sober journey!

So much of what Clare wrote hit home for me, even as a man. I am once again on a sober path, and her stories and wisdom have bolstered my efforts.

- Damian Konopka

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Alexandra Reed

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