Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now
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Ten Arguments for Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now by Jaron Lanier | Audiobook Review

By Jaron Lanier

Narrated by Oliver Wyman

🎧 4 hours and 43 minutes 📘 Penguin Audio 📅 May 31, 2018 🌐 English

About This Audiobook

Random House presents the audiobook edition of Ten Arguments For Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now by Jaron Lanier, read by Oliver Wyman.

Jaron Lanier, the world-famous Silicon Valley scientist-pioneer and 'high-tech genius' (Sunday Times) who first alerted us to the dangers of social media, explains why its toxic effects are at the heart of its design, and explains in ten simple arguments why liberating yourself from its hold will transform your life and the world for the better.

Social media is making us sadder, angrier, less empathetic, more fearful, more isolated and more tribal. In recent months it has become horribly clear that social media is not bringing us together - it is tearing us apart. In Ten Arguments For Deleting Your Social Media Accounts Right Now Jaron Lanier draws on his insider's expertise to explain precisely how social media works - by deploying constant surveillance and subconscious manipulation of its users - and why its cruel and dangerous effects are at the heart of its current business model and design. As well as offering ten simple arguments for liberating yourself from its addictive hold, his witty and urgent manifesto outlines a vision for an alternative that provides all the benefits of social media without the harm.

So, if you want a happier life, a more just and peaceful world, or merely the chance to think for yourself without being monitored and influenced by the richest corporations in history, then the best thing you can do, for now, is delete your social media accounts - right now. You will almost certainly become a calmer and possibly a nicer person in the process.

'A blisteringly good, urgent, essential read' ZADIE SMITH

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A 2018 manifesto about deleting your accounts has aged into something its author may not have planned for, which is a period document. This audiobook runs four hours and forty-three minutes, about the length of an argument delivered in one sitting, and Jaron Lanier builds it as exactly that: ten numbered arguments, plus a closing sketch of what might replace the thing he wants you to walk away from. The claim underneath is that the harm sits in the business model by design rather than arriving as an unfortunate side effect.

Conceding Four Points While Fighting the Other Six

Lanier's case rests on two mechanisms, named plainly in the description: constant surveillance, and manipulation operating below the level of conscious awareness. Everything else follows. If a platform earns money by modifying what users do, then sadder, angrier, more fearful, more tribal users are not a malfunction but an output. That framing is why the book has outlasted most of the commentary published alongside it, and why the argument survives the disappearance of any particular platform. Ten is a rhetorical choice as much as a count, and a numbered list is shrewder than one grand thesis, because it invites you to concede four points while you are still fighting the other six.

Studious, writing five stars in June 2018, described reading it in two days and marking it up with notes and underlines, and made the qualification argument on Lanier's behalf: an early internet pioneer with a claim to having helped invent virtual reality is well placed to explain how the machinery works from inside. That authority is doing real work in the book, because the ten arguments are asserted more often than they are documented.

Oliver Wyman reads this edition, and the publisher copy names the reader directly rather than leaving that credit to the small print, which tells you the reading was treated as part of the product. The material suits a spoken format on structure alone: ten discrete arguments, numbered, each one able to stand on its own. You can stop after any of them without losing the thread, and the thread resumes without a recap.

Supplying the Vocabulary for a Vague Unease

Michael Mackintosh, rating it five, identified the gap this book fills. Most people sense that something has gone wrong with social media without being able to name the mechanism, and the value here lies in supplying the vocabulary. Once you can describe what a feed is optimizing for, the argument about whether to keep using it becomes a different conversation, and one you can actually have with somebody who disagrees.

Criticism is only half the pitch. The description also promises a vision of an alternative that keeps the benefits of social connection without the harms attached, which matters because the withdrawal-only position gets tiresome quickly. Lanier is not arguing that people should stop talking to each other. He is arguing that the current arrangement charges an unacceptable price for it, and that a different arrangement remains possible. That constructive turn also separates the book from the large genre of pure complaint published alongside it.

Brevity does more for this book than length would. Under five hours means the case arrives before your resistance has time to organize, and the numbered structure gives a listener something rare, which is a clear map of where you sit in the argument at any moment. Manifestos that sprawl stop being manifestos. This one keeps the shape of a pamphlet, and the format serves it.

Listening Makes 346 Repetitions Impossible to Skim

Gary Moreau, Author, at four stars, filed the most substantive objection on the page: the whole book is built around one acronym, and it appears 346 times across 160 pages, more than twice per page by that reviewer's count. Reading, you can let a repeated term blur. Listening, every instance gets pronounced at you. The same response credits Lanier with the talent, the humanism, and the Silicon Valley experience to write the definitive book on big tech, then concludes this attempt fell short of it.

Age is the second consideration. Published in May 2018, the book speaks about recent months in a way that refers to the news cycle of that year, and a listener in the present has to do the translation continuously. The mechanisms Lanier describes have not gone anywhere, but the examples and the sense of emergency belong to their moment, and nothing in the recording flags the distance for you. No updated introduction, no author's note about what came next.

Three details on the listing itself deserve mention. The imprint line reads Penguin Audio while the copy opens by announcing that Random House presents this edition. The description is plainly the British text, carrying a Sunday Times descriptor and a blurb from Zadie Smith. And the counter shows four ratings while five signed responses sit below it, filed from the United States, Germany, and Australia, which means storefronts are being pooled somewhere upstream of what you see.

Explaining the Mechanism Without Any Scolding

Bernadette McEntee Hart, writing from Australia with five stars, gives the clearest picture of who benefits. Already off the platforms entirely, that response describes finally understanding the anxiety carried by a younger family member, and why it was not shared. Parents, teachers, and anyone watching someone they love struggle with a feed will get more out of this than a committed user looking for permission to stay. It also travels well across a generation gap, because it explains a mechanism without scolding the person caught inside it.

Look elsewhere if you want reporting, interviews, or a documented history of the industry, because the ten arguments are arguments rather than an investigation. Look elsewhere too if you need a practical exit plan, since the book makes the case for leaving and largely leaves the logistics to you. And anyone who requires a balanced survey of the research will find the tone here closer to advocacy than to review.

Eight years after publication the title still reads as a dare, and the book behind it is more careful than the cover suggests. Lanier is not asking for a moral panic. He is asking you to notice what you are paying, in a currency the platforms would prefer you not to count, and a single sitting is a small enough investment to find out whether the argument holds for you.

The Short Version

  • Narrator: Oliver Wyman reads it, credited by name in the publisher's own copy rather than only on the credit line
  • Subjects: Attention manipulation, surveillance business models, withdrawal as a personal remedy
  • Tone: Impatient and argumentative, a pamphlet rather than a study
  • Bottom line: Still the clearest short case for leaving, as long as you accept a 2018 vantage point.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is the audiobook worth it if you already quit social media?

Probably, yes. The arguments target the design of the machinery rather than your personal willpower, so they explain the environment your friends and family are still living in. Anyone who deleted their accounts and cannot explain why to a skeptical relative will find usable vocabulary in these ten sections.

Does the audiobook offer an alternative, or only the case for leaving?

Both, by the description's own account. The ten arguments carry the criticism, and the closing stretch outlines a vision that would deliver the benefits of social media without the harms attached. Anyone arriving purely for the takedown should expect the last portion to turn constructive instead.

Is the audiobook long enough to cover ten arguments properly?

It works out at under half an hour for each one, which is the right scale for a polemic and the wrong one for a study. Each argument stands alone well enough that stopping between them costs nothing, and the compression is deliberate: a manifesto that overstays stops functioning as a manifesto.

What Listeners Are Saying

★★★★★

Clear, powerful and essential. Read this book!

Most people can feel there is something wrong with social media, but they don't quite know what it is. In this potent book, Jaron Lanier pulls back the curtain and exposes the dark side of social media. These 10 arguments are well researched and written in an approachable way. Having...

- Michael Mackintosh
★★★★★

Jaron Lanier has done society a great favor by exposing the insidious nature of these tools ...

A book I could not put down. I read it in two days and marked up with jotted notes and underlines. Jaron Lanier has done society a great favor by exposing the insidious nature of these tools most of us feel locked into due to the network effect.As one of...

- Studious
★★★★☆

Sometimes you can see the nail plainly but hit your thumb anyway.

Jaron Lanier has the writing talent, a genuinely humanistic perspective, the technical know-how, and the Silicon Valley experience to write the definitive book on the “Gilded Age of Big Tech.” This attempt, however, fell just a tad short for me.It is a book built around a single acronym: BUMMER (Behaviors...

- Gary Moreau, Author
★★★★★

Great book!

Fantastic reading

- Luis
★★★★★

life changing

Reading this made me understand among many other things, the anxiety experienced by a younger loved one and why I don’t share that anxiety (as I’m not on any media platforms)

- Bernadette McEntee Hart

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